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If you and your partner have a significant difference in height, then it's quite possible that your sex life suffers somewhat because of it. You may feel that you are more limited in the positions you can thoroughly enjoy when it comes to lovemaking. Worry no longer because The Height Site is here to help.

Great Positions To Try
If you've landed on this page directly, you may want to see the page with positions to avoid.

Here are some positions that will keep both you and your partner excited for years to come.

Ride like a soldier or Hop like a bunny
Straight Version: Sit her on top of you and let her have her way with your little buddy. Not only does this position give her an awesome amount of control, she can likely reach orgasm much more easily than she would if you were on top.

Gay Version: With the top laying down, the bottom plants his feet or knees on the bed and controls the action.

Sitting Up
Straight Version: While she's on top of you, sit up and hold her while she does her best impression of a wild woman at a rodeo (I'm kidding, take it easy). This is a very intimate position and no matter what height either of you are, this method of sexual pleasure will please everyone.

Gay Version: Might be awkward with a taller bottom or a smaller chair, but with enough support for leverage, this could be a very intimate position.

Spoon position
Straight Version: While you're lying behind her, you can slip your penis inside her and enjoy a soft, smooth motion of penetration while her back's to you. Your body doesn't have to be pressed up against hers; you can opt to form yourselves in a Y position instead.

Gay Version: Both partners lying on their sides means you can focus on the sensations of a gliding penetration without distraction. To avoid hot breath on the back if the top is significantly shorter, you can opt to form a Y position.

Rear entry position or Doggie Style
Straight Version: Although some would say that this position is somewhat impersonal, if you're in a secure relationship, doing it from behind won't make her or you feel anxious in the least. If you're shorter, she can place her buttocks near the soles of her feet to allow for easier penetration. If you're taller, you can place a few pillows under her knees for elevation.

Gay Version: As with the straight version, you can try various angles with the bottom's knees splayed out to lower the buttocks, or he can place his buttocks near the soles of his feet to allow for easier penetration. If the top is significantly shorter, you might also be more comfortable with the bottom lying on his stomache. If the top is significantly taller, try standing next to the bed with the bottom on his hands and knees at the edge of the bed.

You're kneeling
Straight Version: While she's lying down awaiting penetration, raise her legs and place them on your shoulders or bend her legs and hold the backs of her thighs. While you're on your knees, prepare yourself for some of the best stroking of your life. As a variation, if you're tall, look for a counter or table that comes to just below your crotch. If it's strong enough to support her you can try this position while standing.

Gay Version: With the bottom on his back, the top should be on his knees between his legs. Top guy: raise your partner's legs and place them on your shoulders, or grab his hamstrings and hold his legs down once you're in and ready to show him your best moves.

Everyone's different
Remember that in order to fully appreciate lovemaking, you have to discover what works for you and your partner as individuals. Some of the aforementioned positions may not be suitable for your situation, but you must ultimately take the time to find out what does work.

The comments below were sent in by Height Site visitors in response to the article above. If you want to share your opinions about anything discussed on The Height Site, just let us know!

"I've always dated shorter women so I'm familiar with all of the positions you mention... I've never felt like I was just 'making do' with a potentially awkward situation, but it's nice to know others have felt wierd in this area too. Wish I could experience being with a taller woman, but never met any when I was single.
~Jeff, 6ft8